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Alexandra Schultze's avatar

You are an amazing human being. You get it, what it means to be there for someone, and how you are perceptive enough to receive a message like that. How many people would have read between the lines? In the way you are able to? Not many, I can promise you that. You are sheer sunshine. Cloudy day or not.

Melisa Wells's avatar

❤️❤️❤️❤️

kathryn mayer's avatar

how lucky these writers are to have you at the helm

Melisa Wells's avatar

aww thank you! That's very sweet.

Mariana Olenko's avatar

Oh definitely. Although as soon as I see "thank you for your understanding" I have many not charitable responses in my mind. The work life balance is an amazing thing. It took me decades to get it.

Melisa Wells's avatar

Not sharing those not-so-charitable responses is key. LOL

Jenn Belden's avatar

I love the honesty, especially in a world where we are expected to give 110% all the time.

I saw this with my youngest and percussion - they (and their peers) gave 110% right from the start to please their percussion instructor. When senior year arrived and they decided ( as most of the percussion kids there did) to focus on their mental health and life balance and everything to get ready for college - so giving only 100% - they were viewed as slacking off, or worse, not caring. I told my kiddo that it’s a good lesson to normalize more balance from the start for just this reason.

Melisa Wells's avatar

Totally agree! I'm so glad you were able to have that conversation with them. I wish our generation had that knowledge at such a young age!

Angela Amman's avatar

That work-life balance can be so tough, but I'm glad that person mentioned it! I think the more we talk about it, the easier it gets to do it (in some situations!)

Melisa Wells's avatar

I feel like we’re all fighting a similar battle. We need to take care of each other. ❤️